First, arrive late.
Please note that the science behind is an exact science. A delay of coquetry or automatism slightly neurotic than a quarter of an hour is not relevant here. I mean a real delay. But beware, you must manipulate the delay sensitivity. Everything is in the mix. A delay may cause too strong an abandonment and therefore the delivery of your first visit later.
Tip: The best is to go inside a bar, a quiet restaurant, so that servers come several times to see your appointment offering to order. And that your appointment is forced to respond several times a slightly embarrassed tone
- There she is still not happened. I'll wait ...
Obviously no texting, no phone call to prevent!
You finally arrive.
Especially, do not apologize. Instead, start by bitching, you've spent a day abominable, in the colder it is, there is no longer in season and you're tired. And this con on the road, you almost get into it on a scooter. And this server does not come! It irritates you the Parisian bars, always wait for hours etc, etc..
There, you have started the game. But You still playing cards. Ask your
then go about their day and cut his speech when he began to respond to request to the server-euse that gives you olives.
Then, take the reins of the conversation.
Think especially well to punctuate the exchange of comments that show your sharpness and your interest in the other.
Examples.
- So you're a musician. That must be super boring to always be on the road.
- So you're dentist! Ah, you're not really so doctor is like podiatrists. Podiatrist it's not glamorous, eh?
- So you're a journalist, is not well paid, right?
- So, you're a photographer ... My cousin also made the picture. And you do wedding pictures?
- So, you're psycho, they're all a little weird psy .. . Hey, I can not stop being afraid to close the door of my apartment with the keys in it, you think I have OCD?
- So you're in the pub? It's cool. I have a friend who works in, he spends his time lazing around.
- So, you're a restaurateur, what restaurant? Ah, paintings conservator?
- So you're sporting? Ah, it's cool to be paid to play sports!
- Ah, you work in real estate? What box? Ah, do not know ...
Locate your ex in the room. A man slightly vulgar. (Or the reverse, depending on your preferences, this method is universal, like USB ports). Designate the chin with an air of panic. Talk with hatred, showing that the wound is not closed. And with the absolute delicacy that distinguishes you, you always bring your prey in the same place.
Ah! Your glass of wine finally arrives. Especially 're uncomfortable with the server-euse and do not thank it. Then point out the first sip it is not very good this wine. But that's okay, you want to go out in the rain smoking a cigarette. Your appointment will be with you, shivering. Switch to another as soon as the first ended.
Your phone rings. Especially saying
pick - I'm with a boyfriend-girlfriend. No, you do not bother me at all ... I'm XXX. No, there is not too crowded, it's going ... and chatting quietly. Laugh out loud, vaguely apologizing Mime Marceau way to your appointment. Then, after hanging up, talk at length about the person who just hold you 10 good minutes on the phone. Just
already when selecting dishes for dinner. Put the hours you decide. Then change your mind once noted that the server your order. Do not apologize under any circumstances!
That's it, your first appointment is completely successful, your partner in love, do you just have to hate the dinner, yawning copiously until the end of the meal and make sure to speak only of you.
Bravo, now, seduction has no secrets for you.
If you have other suggestions do not hesitate to testify to 16 30 30 (3,50 € per minute), ask Bernard, or bottom of these messages.
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